Saturday, December 19, 2020

I Am Your Personal Memory Preservation Specialist and Family Historian

By Dwayne Lee, M.Photog., Cr.-API 

     We are all getting older, and in time, our memory tends to slip a bit. That’s where I come in. I create timeless photographic portraits of you and your family – a moment frozen in time forever, a constant reminder of from where we came. Most people don’t stop and consider the value that photographs provide until it is too late. Since we are all busy in the hustle of our own lives, and it doesn’t occur to us how precious the legacy, the stories, the gifts we can leave to our family through photography can be. If I were to write a book, I would share this perspective with my audience to hopefully instill a new sense of gratitude and appreciation for this timeless art.

 

     The primary purpose of a family portrait, while helping you record precious memories of how your family looks like today, is a gift from you to future generations so they can see from where they came. It’s like the original “Ancestery.com”.

 

     Family portraits are probably the most difficult portraits to make happen. The larger the family, the harder it is to get everyone’s schedule aligned. But even with this difficulty, it’s imperative to update your family’s portrait every five years.

 

     Why every five years? There are several different reasons to consider. The family make-up is very volatile. Change is inevitable. On any given day, people can enter or leave our lives without warning. A birth or death changes a family forever, but pictures allow you to preserve the family dynamic at that moment in time. Marriages add new love and faces to the equation and divorces can split families up. Infants and toddlers grow exponentially in five years and then teenagers grow into adulthood. Having these portraits creates a visual timeline to follow us through the years and tell the stories beyond our abilities.

 

     There are several ways in which you can customize your family portrait. Different locations are an easy and creative way, the portrait can be taken in a professional photography studio, in a park, in a home, a museum, or wherever you choose. Clothing can be another unique detail, whether you choose casual, formal, or something in between. While you have everyone together, in addition to the large group containing everyone in your family, breakouts are a great option to consider as well. Pictures containing grandparents alone, grandparents with their children, grandparents with the grandchildren, each family unit (siblings with their spouses and children), siblings and their spouses alone, siblings, generations by gender, individuals, etc. are just some options. There truly is an unlimited number of ways to make the most out of this experience!

 

     One of the best ways to help create the finest family portrait possible is to have a consultation with the photographer prior to the day of the session. At this consultation, there are several things to discuss that will help make this not only a beautiful portrait, but an heirloom family portrait that will be enjoyed for generations to come. Clothing – colors and styles, hair styles, a location, the time of day, backgrounds and props etc. The magic is in the details and all these small things add up to one large memory!

 

     The portrait session is only the first half of creating your heirloom image. About a week after the session, you have an opportunity to view what was created. Our Studio contains a theatre where you will view the images on a large screen television. Seeing them this way allows you to make a more informed decision on which portraits help everyone look their best. There is also an option to view multiple images on the screen at the same time for the best comparisons when making your decisions.

 

     Once the poses have been selected, the next step is to decide what sizes and finishes you want the images to be. Wall portraits, including prints 16”x20”and larger images, make great décor for your home. The bigger your family, the bigger the portrait needs to be. But don’t worry about having enough wall space. If you have a regular size sofa, you can easily accommodate a 30”x40” or 40”x50” portrait on the wall above it. What a statement you will make about your family, too! It will become the focal point of that room for everyone to continually enjoy. This will not only allow your portrait to be a gift for your family, but to your guests as well.

 

     And finally, after selecting the showcase wall portrait, you’ll be sure to want gift size portraits (5”x7” and 8”x10”) for family, friends, and albums. All the portraits you select to be printed will be fully retouched and enhanced to help make everyone look their best. Social media sized digital files are available with all printed portraits as well. Regardless of your needs, there is ample opportunity to share your legacy whatever way fits best for you!

 

     To start your family portrait session process, call or come by:

Ø  Southern Flair Photography

Ø  2550 Legacy Point Dr. Dr.

Ø  Arlington, Texas 76006

Ø  817.277.0477 or 214.773.1414

Ø  Website: www.sflair.com

Ø  Email: southernflair@sbcglobal.net

Wednesday, December 9, 2020

This piece aired in 2013 on Channel 11 here in the Dallas/Ft. Worth area, and I get emotional watching. 

Sgt. Major Blatnik died last Saturday morning at the age of 100. He was from Rowlett, just outside Eastern Dallas.

God rest his soul!

 https://dfw.cbslocal.com/2020/12/05/north-texas-veteran-d-day-hero-sgt-maj-robert-blatnik-dies/






Saturday, May 30, 2020

Photographing a Centurion!

It’s not often you get to photograph someone who is 100 years old!
God bless you, Effie!
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Friday, May 22, 2020

Public Service Announcement

PSA: Did you know that the more relaxed you are during your photo session the better the photos will turn out?
That's why meeting with your photographer in person prior to the session is an important next step in booking your portrait session.
Meeting with your photographer will help you decide if your personalities are a good match, and it's the one thing you should do!
You're welcome. Come see us!

Mr. & Mrs. Peter Jacobs
50th Anniversary Portrait

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Thursday, April 30, 2020

We're Busting Outa the House!

We’re doing “Busting Outta the House” Sessions starting Friday! Color powder is provided. Similar to Front Porch Portraits. We’ll take your normal porch portrait but then do this fun color powder to celebrate. 10 cans of food to help restock the Hearts & Hands Food Bank at North Davis Church of Christ is all we require for payment. Let us know if you want on the list!

Gratitude Sessions

We have been inspired by the different ways we have seen people supporting local businesses and each other. We believe and are hopeful that we will arrive on the other side of this challenging time stronger and better together. We so grateful for the sacrifices that all of the essential workers are making right now. They are the ones who are making it possible for us to stay safe with our family.
We have a form available on our website, www.sflair.com , called Gratitude Sessions. You can nominate an essential worker for a chance to win a $500 Gratitude Session. Sessions will take place once we are on the other side of this virus. Nominations will be accepted through May 1, 2020. A winner will be announced the following day. There is no purchase necessary to nominate an essential worker.

We're Opening Back Up on Friday!

We are pleased to announce that Southern Flair Photography will be back open this Friday! But we do have some limitations in place for now. Our goal is to service our clients, but at a minimal risk to their health or the health of our staff.
1) We are only seeing people BY APPOINTMENT ONLY so we can stagger people in and out and have no overlap and allow time to sanitize between people. Please call 817-277-0477 and set an appointment for anything you need, including order pick ups, etc.
2) If you are in an at risk group, please delay any appointments until things are calmed down. No matter how careful we are, We don't want to possibly contaminate anyone in an at risk group.
3) We will be keeping more distance and sanitizing everything in sight. We are stocked with hand sanitizer and Lysol!
4) For newborns, which can not be put off (at 9 weeks, it's no longer a newborn!) we are wearing a mask, gloves and will not be holding any babies.
But for now, we are back servicing our clients. We are now scheduling photo shoots, order sessions, etc.
If you need to schedule a photoshoot, order, or reorder from previous photos, give us a call at 817-277-0477 and we will get you scheduled.

Saturday, March 14, 2020

Life's Lessons


This is something we should all read at least once a week!
    Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio
  
  "To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written."
    
My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:
    1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
    2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
    3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
    4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
    5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
    6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
    7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
    8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
    9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
    10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
    11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
    12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
    13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
    14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
    15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
    16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
    17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
    18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
    19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
    20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
    21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
    22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
    23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
    24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
    25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
    26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'
    27. Always choose life.
    28. Forgive everyone everything.
    29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
    30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
    31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
    32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
    33. Believe in miracles.
    34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
    35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
    36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
    37. Your children get only one childhood.
    38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
    39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
    40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's,we'd grab ours back.
    41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
    42. The best is yet to come.
    43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
    44. Yield.
    45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."
    Its estimated 93% won't forward this. If you are one of the 7% who will, forward this with the title '7%'.
    I'm in the 7%.
    Remember that I will always share my spoon with you!
    Friends are the family that we choose for ourselves.

I Am Your Personal Memory Preservation Specialist and Family Historian By Dwayne Lee, M.Photog., Cr.-API



     We are all getting older, and in time, our memory has a tendency to slip a bit. That’s where I come in. I create timeless photographic portraits of you and your family – a moment frozen in time forever, a constant reminder of from where we came.

     The primary purpose of a family portrait, while helping you record precious memories of how your family looks like today, is actually a gift from you to future generations so they can see from where they came. It’s a modern day “Ancestery.com”.

     Family portraits are probably the most difficult portraits to make happen. The larger the family, the harder it is to get everyone’s schedule aligned. But even with this difficulty, it’s imperative to update your family’s portrait every five years.

     Why every five years? Let’s look at some of the important reasons:
  • ·        The family make-up is very volatile. Change is inevitable.
  • ·        On any given day, someone in your family could die.
  • ·        Or, you might have a birth in the family.
  • ·        Infants and toddlers grow exponentially in five years.
  • ·        Teenagers grow into adulthood.
  • ·        Marriages occur, adding new faces.
  • ·        Divorces happen, splitting up families.


     There are several ways in which you can customize your family portrait.
·        The portrait can be taken in a professional photography studio, in a park, in a home, a museum, or wherever you choose.
·        Clothing could be casual, formal, or something in between.
·        While you have everyone together, in addition to the large group containing everyone in your family, you should also do breakouts:
o   Grandparents alone
o   Grandparents with their children
o   Grandparents with the grandchildren
o   Each family unit (siblings with their spouses and children)
o   Siblings and their spouses alone
o   Siblings
o   Generations by gender
o   Individuals

     One of the best ways to help create the finest family portrait possible is to have a consultation with the photographer prior to the session day. At this consultation, there are several things to discuss that will help make this not only a beautiful portrait, but an heirloom family portrait that will be enjoyed for generations to come. Here are just a few things we will cover with you:
  1. ·        Clothing – colors, styles
  2. ·        Where the portrait session will take place
  3. ·        Time of day the session should occur
  4. ·        Hairstyles
  5. ·        Backgrounds and props

      The portrait session is about the half-way point in creating your heirloom image. About a week after the session, you will have an opportunity to view what was created. We have a theatre in our Studio where you will view the images on a large screen television. Seeing them this way, they are large and you are able to make a more informed decision on which portraits everyone looks their best. We can even put multiple images on the screen to compare when it gets down to making your decisions.

     Once the particular poses have been selected, the next step is to decide what sizes and finishes you want the images to be. Wall portraits, 16”x20”, make great décor in your home. The bigger your family, the bigger the portrait needs to be. But don’t worry about having enough wall space. If you have a regular size sofa, you can easily accommodate a 30”x40” or 40”x50” portrait on the wall above it. What a statement you will make about your family, too. It will become the focal point of that room for everyone to continually enjoy.

     And finally, after selecting the showcase wall portrait, you’ll be sure to want gift size portraits (5”x7” and 8”x10”) for family, friends, and albums. All of the portraits you select to be printed will be fully retouched and enhanced to help make everyone look their best.

     On a side note, social media sized digital files are available with all printed portraits.

     To start your family portrait session process, call or come by:
Ø  Southern Flair Photography
Ø  2214 W. Park Row Dr.
Ø  Arlington, Texas 76013
Ø  817.277.0477 or 214.773.1414
Ø  Website: www.sflair.com
Ø  Email: southernflair@sbcglobal.net